Depend on yourself
Make sure that the person you are most dependent on is yourself.
If we depend on others emotionally for our own happiness, this is not sustainable and is likely to end up with one or both parties feeling unfulfilled.
If we are dependent on another for our happiness we will not find out who we truly are, and we may even hold the other person back too.
Effective relationships are a balance between giving and receiving, and if each person is "whole" (without being dependent on another) they will be able to give far more freely, and of themselves, to the relationship with the outcome being beneficial for all.
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