Regrets Having regrets will keep us stuck in the past, unable to enjoy the present and potentially contaminate our future.
Whether we wish we had done something different or not done it at all, the reality is that it did happen and it happened in a way that was meant for us.
While we may look back now full of judgement, we should think that we did our best with whatever skills, knowledge and experience we had at that time.
Inevitably we'll grow and learn more which means we can look at our past with a more enlightened perspective.
Don't use this perspective to be too harsh on yourself. |